My Essential Summer list * (*-Excludes NASCAR, sunburn, and lake swimming)

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Things I want to do this summer

Everyone loves summer.

We count down the days ‘til it starts. We long for it in the depths of winter. Give us sun and sand, sleeping in and summer vacation. I’ve never been on board. Cooling autumn winds, short days and chilly nights sustain my soul the way the sun does others’.

Summer’s nearly here, though.

Antsy kids foreshadow summer. The Colorado Rockies find themselves in the thick of the playoff hunt, even though the playoff hunt won’t heat up for another four months. I’m a Vans kind of guy when the Carolinas turns to flip-flop weather.

Maybe summer can usher that renewal I’ve sought so deeply.

Connections can be restored, energy extended, faith reaffirmed, peace reestablished, stillness begun.

A hand back to feel rock bottom counts as close enough. A vice grip on the wheel with eyes closed and the myth of control abandoned will yield to a smooth road. Connections can be restored, energy extended, faith reaffirmed, peace reestablished, stillness begun.

No matter how long those take, when summer’s here, here’s what I’d like to do.

Lie on a blanket and gaze at the clouds.

Lie on a blanket and gaze at the stars.

Camp, fish, and camp again.

Fish somewhere new.

Get lost.

Be found.

Chill out.

Hear my kids again. Hear them want to share with me.

Accept my fate.

Embrace my fate.

Dip my feet in a mountain stream.

Feel healed.

Laugh. Laugh like life is good.

Meditate. Inside and outside.

Grill, cook, bake, and order takeout.

Play disc golf at sunrise.

Play disc golf as twilight approaches.

Set my mind to goals I’ve not even dreamed of yet.



Use sunblock.

Teach. Learn.

Climb. Rest. Climb more. Rest even more.

Pay my price.

Trust. Be worthy of trust.

Stop meditating on letting go of attachments, and practice it.

Waste an entire day. The whole thing.

Find health.

Play my harmonica.

Work late. Leave early.

Toss a closet-cleansing yard sale.

Find a new show, like The Bletchley Circle. Watch it a lot, but don’t become a slave to it.


Hike on a Sunday morning (or many Sunday mornings) with Marie.

Fish on a Saturday morning (or many Saturday mornings) with Grace.

Work out on a Friday morning (or many Friday mornings) with Elise.

Sit in the bleacher seats at day baseball games and score the game. Not care about anything else around me but the way a game unfolds simply and beautifully and uniquely.

Outrun a thunderstorm.

Help one of my kids with an outlandish idea.

Take a ball and snacks and drinks and my kids to a field.

Do that with other kids, too.

Walk alone. Walk with others.

Feel the sand in my toes, feel the salt of the sea on my lips. It’s been a long time.

Write. Read. Read even more. Maybe even a book. Writing and reading.

Feel the grass on my feet, the breeze in my hair and the sun on my face.

Love myself again.

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  1. 1jaded1 says:

    Not everyone loves Summer. *Whispers “Autumn”. I love your list… Most can be done in any season…even the camping…

    1. Eli Pacheco says:

      That’s the beauty of the seasons, LJ.

  2. Lyn says:

    You, Marie, Grace and Elise are so blessed to have one another. May your Summer be filled with joy, peace and love.

    1. Eli Pacheco says:

      We do feel blessed, Lyn. It was another good summer.

  3. suzjones says:

    I love that list. I’m an autumn/winter kind of person myself.
    The weather here is just beginning to cool and we are almost finished autumn. Bring on the cold I say!

  4. ksbeth says:

    yes, to all of this, eli. you deserve it. as we all do. any less is doing an injustice to ourselves.

    1. Eli Pacheco says:

      I’ll take it bit by bit, Beth. We all should spend a summer in contemplation and in bliss and mostly in food cooked outside.

  5. Summer is truly my favorite season here as I think you already knew about me. So, I couldn’t love more your post here dedicated to my favorite time of the year and yes I hope to get to do all of the above and more this upcoming summer season now, too! 🙂

    1. Eli Pacheco says:

      I did know that, Janine! (Especially if the Mets are any good.) It’s always good to have a list for any season, isn’t it?

  6. Kisma says:

    You made a summer bucket list!!! My daughter makes one every summer. I love this and I especially love the quote at the end!

    We have 4 days until schools officially for the summer!

  7. artistpath says:

    Great post! A wonderful reminder of all the fun that Summer brings but I too am a fan of Fall… Cooler days, football and scarfs! Have a great week!

    1. Eli Pacheco says:

      Thanks Sue. Fall calls me, but there’s time to do much in the meantime.

  8. Kathy G says:

    That sounds like a doable list. Here’s to a good summer!

    1. Eli Pacheco says:

      One item at a time, Kathy. Good summer to you, too.

  9. stomperdad says:

    That’s one hell of a summer bucket list! Good luck getting ‘er all done. I’m with you in autumn. Fall is definitely my favorite.

    1. amommasview says:

      Totally with you too! Gotta love fall…

      1. Eli Pacheco says:

        I can almost smell the Carolina barbecue, Sandra.

      2. Eli Pacheco says:

        I flew to Boston today and had Carolina barbecue for lunch. Maybe I’ll go home and have lobstah.

      3. Eli Pacheco says:

        Of the ‘cue, or Boston?

      4. amommasview says:

        All of it 😉

      5. Eli Pacheco says:

        Can’t go wrong with ‘cue and bleacher seats at Fenway.

      6. stomperdad says:

        I love love love the warm days and cool nights in he fall. Italso provides ideal running weather.

      7. amommasview says:

        Same here. 🍃🍁🍂

      8. Eli Pacheco says:

        Plus, my birthday, y’all.

      9. amommasview says:

        Now, if you’d live in Australia you would be a spring chick…

      10. Eli Pacheco says:

        They have that kind of healing power?

      11. amommasview says:

        Let me think about it…

      12. Eli Pacheco says:

        And makes up for how lousy Canadian hockey has become.

      13. stomperdad says:

        I don’t watch Hockey 🙂 Fall is mynfavorite season, but summer has baseball.

      14. Eli Pacheco says:

        Dang right it does. I went to Fenway on Friday, brother. Incredible.

      15. stomperdad says:

        Nice. I’d love to see the Monster.

      16. Eli Pacheco says:

        I got to watch Mookie Betts try and figure out the carom a couple of times against Cleveland. That’s tricky trig.

    2. Eli Pacheco says:

      “Bucket” implies I’ll kick one at the end. I believe they’ll all play out how they’re supposed to, Eric, and that I’ll still be standing (or leaning) at the end. And really for Autumn.

    3. Eli Pacheco says:

      Summer flies by, doesn’t it, Eric? Especially when your team is in contention. But there’s something to be said for fall, too, with football. And barbecue.

      1. stomperdad says:

        Summer is good. Fall is my favorite. Warm days. Cold nights. Perfect weather for running. You can sometimes feel the world quieting down getting ready to sleep.

      2. Eli Pacheco says:

        I could go for a quieter love sometimes, brother.

  10. amommasview says:

    Fantastic list and if we wouldn’t head into winter I would just follow your list too…

    1. Eli Pacheco says:

      Some of this doesn’t work south of the equator right now, does it, Sandra?

      1. amommasview says:

        Nope, not really… Well, having said that, we have rather unusual mild temperature at the moment and the water is cold all the time anyway, so might still try some of them over the next days 😉

  11. I love Fall, it calls to me all year! What a list of wonderful things, I need to make one!

    1. Eli Pacheco says:

      I’d love for fall to last six months, but maybe then it would lose some allure. I’d love to see a list you came up with, Lynz.

      1. For some reason Fall makes me feel so warm and comforted! Yes it would probably lose it’s allure! I need to make a list for sure! I am not ready for summer lol

      2. Eli Pacheco says:

        Maybe the list will make it go faster.

  12. Nikki says:

    I, myself, am a Fall/Spring kinda girl. I think it’s the settling in/waking up that happens in those seasons. It feels like a rebirth of sorts to me.
    I love this post. A lot. I see a lot of myself in it and my own goals for the season I’m heading into in my own life. Not gonna label it a “bucket list” because it’s more a self inventory to me. Goals are good but you’re making note to enjoy the journey TO those goals and that’s what stands out to me. You’ll get there. Baby steps and deep breaths.

    1. Eli Pacheco says:

      I could handle fall and spring back-to-back, Nikki. The transitions are magical. It’s a movement away from harsh cold and harsh heat.

      I’m glad you liked this post. I didn’t want it to read like a bucket list. It is a new season for me, too.

      Self inventory takes place on its own. At this point, it’s more about experience to me than reaching goals.

      Maybe those experiences will reveal my next goals.

      1. Nikki says:

        Yes, yes, and yes.
        Meander and explore and everything else will fall into place. Happy Friday Eli. I hope your weekend holds good things.

      2. Eli Pacheco says:

        It definitely could, couldn’t it?

  13. Rorybore says:

    Yes, yes and YES to all of it!!
    Hubby and I just watched Bucket List with Nicholson and Freeman last night and maybe that is the trick: you need someone else to do the list and hold you accountable! We need a Master List and keep encouraging one another to cross those items off. And, allow some space for those spontaneous moments like backyard BBQs and running through a cool sprinkler and eating Popsicle on the front lawn.
    Okay, so I did those 3 : you’re up Coach. 🙂

    1. Eli Pacheco says:

      Thanks Les! Oh, I hated that movie. You’re right though – accountability, with a partner in crime or published post, motivates.

      Mine’s more a guideline, and contains so many items impossible to metric. That’s fine with me.

      Just reviewed my list. Yes, I’ve gotten three, at least. I wouldn’t mind doing them again.

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