About


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I’m Eli. I’m a coach, writer, and dad. Sometimes, all at once.

Sometimes, it’s hard to see the difference! That’s why this blog is called Coach Daddy.

I have some pretty cool friends. And I love when they guest blog around here. My childhood was a collection of embarrassing stories that seemed to fit my future as a blogger. Way before blogs even existed.

I’m also lucky enough to guest post on some cool blogs, too.

Monday: Feature posts. Mostly on being mindful, but also sometimes about tacos.

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Me, as drawn by Madison.

Wednesday: Go Ask Daddy. My girls have asked me a trillion questions. I answer them on this day. Five at a time.

Thursday: Guest posts or #GirlsRock interviews. Both have yielded some incredible people. Curation happens on this day, with 6 Words posts, in which I ask friends, strangers, bloggers, and strange blogger friends to chime in on a prompt in exactly six words.

If you email me, or if I wind up on your blog that month, there’s a good chance I’ll ask you for your contribution.

You might also see random smart phone photo posts. It’s good to have a non-crappy phone. Thanks, girls.

Friday: It’s time for gratitude. To keep things real, they’re hashtagged #gratitudeandshit. Come add your things of thanks.

Saturday/Sunday: Curation continues with Weekend Reads. I’ll share a handful of posts for you to check out on other blogs for a little weekend reading action.

This began as a blog about fatherhood and coaching soccer. I’ve found so many similarities. I’ve also discovered ways in which the experiences impact life. And how life can impact fatherhood and coaching.

I’m a Broncos fan and a dreamer. I’ve done cool challenges, such as the photo a day challenge. You can guess what that entailed.

I’m not much of a winner, but that’s okay with me. It’s allowed me to become a better coach, a better writer, and, hopefully, a better dad.

I write letters, too. Sometimes events move me, and it takes me a while, but I’ll address it. I believe in patience, the power of a comment, and the persistence of being kind and sharing things, even pizza. Well, maybe not pizza.

Consider me a contribution to science, and goodwill worldwide, coming at you three times a week.

Or just a distraction.

Either/or. Thanks for the page hit.

Let me hear from you, too.

Eli

elipacheco.ejp(at)gmail.com

Twitter: @Eliatcoachdaddy

Instagram: eli_coach_daddy

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205 thoughts on “About

  1. Seriously….where have I been? What a great mission and site filled with warm and kind words. Any daddy with three daughters has something a little extra to offer the world and I’m so happy our paths crossed this week. I’m on a bit of a writing break…but, I’ll be seeing you around 🙂

    1. I’m just glad you’re here now – and I hope soon I will rummage around in your pages wondering where *I’ve* been. I’m humbled by what my incredible readers have helped create here.

      I feel like as a dad of three daughters, the world has so much to offer me. And just think, all it took was six songs. If you did one of those posts, could you send me a link to it?

      1. Reading what you wrote makes me hope you’ll write again. At least I have some catching up to do until you do! Interesting that you’d pick the same songs … I think sometimes if I wrote it again even today, it might be different.

  2. Hi, I just discovered you via Cynthia at You Signed Up for What?, she was featured in this month’s 6 words post. I have to say, this is the first blog I am subscribing to after just one visit. I looked around and love your perspective on life. Looking forward to your posts!

    1. Hey Michele, welcome – Cynthia is quite the reference. I adore that girl. She does a great job with the 6 words, too, that’s why I keep her around.

      Honored that you’ve enlisted! Your blog’s now in my READ! folder, which is stuffed with great stuff. Can’t wait to look around some more (I just was there).

      Thanks again!

  3. Hi there, I want to thank you for following my blog and taking the time to comment. I have been following your blog for a little while now and I must say, I am a fan. Thanks again.

  4. Hi – thanks for choosing to follow my blog and leading me to yours. I love what you wrote about race and how you’re changing the conversation. Such lovely words and thoughts – authentic and real. – Adriana

    1. Glad I found you – you’ve been in my READ! bookmark folder for a while. So glad you enjoyed the race piece, and the shift in conversation.

      Even if the conversation is just here, I’m grateful.

      1. I’ve been blogging for a little over a year, but I only joined WordPress in May. My current blog, What is Past is Prologue, has only been in existence since August. I still consider myself pretty new to blogging so I really appreciate all the support I’ve been getting from the Word Press community. 🙂

  5. Dude, there are not nearly enough dads out here! I really dig your groovy style (Sorry. Major Monkees fan. I sometimes write in throwback.) ! Thanks for friending me as I am super new to all this online jazz. Looking forward to reading more from you.

    1. There are a few dads out here, but I’ve managed to piss most of them off. I’m down with groovy. I have your blog in my READ! folder and look forward to checking it out!

  6. I have not had time to check out the blogs of all the folks who comment on mine, this has been an intense month for sure. but just now your title made me want to take a look and I really like your comments and thoughts.. Being the mother of three sons and one daughter raising kids was interesting. I never had a sister so was totally foreign about girls even though one myself. I had four brothers and that was my life, a male driven world, so enjoyed reading your blog. will be following it now, thanks

    1. It’s so hard to find time to read when you write everyday! It’s been a blast, though. I’m a boy, but I feel raising a boy would be a challenge. I’d be up for it, though.

      Glad we crossed paths, and I look forward to reading more of you.

  7. Eli, how are you? 😀 I’m so glad that you stumbled upon my neck of the woods, otherwise I wouldn’t have found your blog. Thank you so much for the follow. I have done the same in return. Looking forward to seeing what goodies you have here. 😀 Have a great day.
    ~Dulcinea

      1. I’m good Eli. And I’m pleased that you find something in my blog worth coming back for. 😀

  8. I appreciate your voice and what you are doing. Eli. Every daughter needs a father who reflects back to her that it is good to be strong and athletic. I look forward to reading more of your work.

    1. Thanks Chris! I’ve always wanted my girls to have a soft center and tough edges – I’ve found that if I had to choose, I’d rather they had the edges and work on the center. That’s what’s happened, I think.

      So glad to have you here, and look forward to our project. I’ll email you today!

  9. “I believe in the power of a comment, the value of others’ words, and that the good will eventually rise to the surface.”

    …maybe you do write like a girl, because this sounds like something i would say.

  10. Eli, I’m literally laughing to myself in my living room after reading this, and I am grateful that the cat is the only one here to give me an odd look. I don’t know how to even explain why it is so poetic and so funny. You are a talented writer, to be certain, but I am also touched by your frankness and the topics of your blog. I especially love the “6 Word Post” and “Go Ask Daddy” themes. Can’t wait to read more!

    1. Glad you got a laugh, Lulu! Thank you for the kind words. It’s a blast to do this, and it’s wonderful to share it with writers like you. Look forward to reading more on your blog, too.

  11. Thanks for stopping by on Sunday Selfie day! We hope you come back by during Blogging a to z!! I can’t say what my theme is – at least not yet – but it will be fun! Thanks again!! Purrs, Toby

  12. You shine through this page. Well done! You have everything planned out; a big lesson to learn. Keep shining friend. Your light has brightened and will brighten the way for many. I hope to stop by from time to time to learn and draw some inspiration.

    1. Thanks my friend! I appreciate it. I wish I could structure my life as well as I do my blog. It’s an awful lot of fun.

      I’ve read you a while and it’s great to be connected.

  13. Eli, very nice to learn more about you! Thank you very much for following my blog, I will certainly take time to visit yours as well. I hope your day is a happy one! 🙂

      1. I could certainly try the six words post – no excuses – but I am very busy with moving and my health issues and finding it difficult to write as much as I would like- but I certainly will try. Thank you, I hope you have a great day! 🙂

    1. Thank you, Joylene – it’ll be good to have you along. And thanks for the kind words. There’s too much good stuff out there to while away time away from it. Happy writerhood to us both!

  14. Hi Eli. Thanks for dropping by my blog. I like what you say here, especially the paragraph about women. Men who recognize the wonderfulness of women are enlightened.

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